The fruit of the Spirit consists not of attributes that we produce. On the contrary, they are produced by the Spirit as His influence and direction grows within us. We are fruit-bearers, not fruit-producers. So quit straining and trying by your own human effort to produce the attributes listed in our Bible passage below. Instead, just yield everything to Jesus. He will give you everything else that you need!
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness.